DO ask at least one question, preferably about something you read in her profile.This proves you actually read her profile and didn’t just check out her picture, and that, again, you’re capable of having a conversation.
Think about how many fights between men and women are about a lack of communication—you don’t want that to be you.In a virtual dating word, your written words are you. I will tell you right now that I delete anyone who contacts me with “How R U doing 2day?It’s not only important what you write, but how you write it. Yeah, yeah, it’s a nice little tool that helps you figure out if someone is interested in you or not, but what it really says to a woman is “I’m too shy to actually talk to you.” And while shy can seem endearing, most women doing online dating have a ton of men contacting them, especially if they are someone worth contacting. While writing a joke is harder than telling one, any bit of humor you can put in your email is a good way to show off your personality. ”If you can’t take the time to actually spell out your words, you’re just not worth mine.********* Online Dating Guide: 14 Dos and Don’ts of that First Crucial Email Written by: Jennae Online dating often feels like its own world.Real winks are replaced with virtual ones, and chemistry is guessed at through pictures and profiles.